Bad Love

yes, michelle, in some instances, love can be bad.   furthermore, bad love is always bad.  bad love is what happens when you love someone who has an ego where their heart should be and/or is more than a little stupid.  it all goes back to the concept of soul mates.  i believe in soul mates.  i really do.  however, some people do not have souls.  obviously then, these people cannot have soul mates.  many a verbally abusive, emotionally immature, self-centered fool has undeservedly found his/herself in a relationship with a loving and worthwhile individual.  i cannot account for this, save that people with souls want to believe the best of everybody.  sadly, some people's "best" sucks.  you see, the soulless have actually convinced themselves that they are good people, making it that much easier to deceive souled individuals.  in reality, these deadbeat significant others are quite often vain, washed up losers who were falsely convinced during high school that they were something special.  now, they are desparately clinging to this idea and to the things they think can still make them special.  but, there is nothing, and i mean NOTHING that will ever make them worth a dried up dog turd.  a high IQ doesn't help.  daddy's money doesn't help.  (btw, person A- you aren't that freakin' smart, and person B-your daddy isn't that freakin' rich.) drugs and alcohol don't help.  (persons B and C- whatever helps you sleep at night.)  really, these people will always just suck.  if you verbally or physically abuse your significant other, you suck.  if you cheat, you suck.  if you lie, you suck.  if you claim to love someone, yet you somehow still think you're better than them, you suck. 

so, it is as i have already said.  michelle, sometimes love sucks, especially if the person you love sucks.  so don't love him (or her).  he (or she) sucks.